7.25.2010

Nature's Course for Man

I saw two birds flying with each other the other day. Fast and simple, they knew which way the other was going to turn and followed in complete unionism. They were both white. Pure, in a sense.
They know their purpose- To be together. Birds mate for life, and no thoughts of cheating, lying, arguing, or breaking up ever crosses their bird minds. They have let nature completely take its course, and they have found the one.

The other day, one of my church mentors married her dream husband. They are both in their early 20s and she is only three years older than I am. She knows what she wants in life and is putting nature first, and staying true to one man.

Lucky couple, I know. And I'm so happy for them.
But why can't we all be like them? Why are kids these days so focused on finding the one, being with someone who isn't good for them, and changing natures course to be with that person?

I'm only trying to figure out what God has in store for me. And to tell you the truth, a guy might not ever come into my life and there is nothing wrong with that. Yes, I want kids. Badly. I love children. But I can't be so focused on finding a guy that I have no time to find myself.

I've hurt this past year. Too much over forcing relationships with guys who don't have all the qualities I want in them. I'm done with that. I can be happy with myself in knowing that as long as I have family, friends, a job, school, and other things going well for me, I don't need a guy to make me happy.

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